a man of age should wed,a woman of age should marry ❍ 古来说的：‘男大须婚，女大须嫁。’老太太想，倒是赶着把他们的事办办也罢了。(《红楼梦》1176) As they say: When the time comes do not tarry; boys must wed and girls must marry. Don’t you think it would be better,madam,to lose no time in arranging their marriages?