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相敬如宾xiāng jìng rú bīnbehave to one’s spout as one would have done to a guest; [of husband and wife] show each other respect as to a guest; treat each other with respect due to a guest
❍ 双方的话表面上都很体贴而又温存，其实她摸清了徐义德回来的时间，徐义德有了江菊霞约会的空隙，她可以找冯永祥，真是～，各得其所。(周而复《上海的早晨》448) Both sides of the conversation gave the superficial impression of affectionate concern whereas in actual fact by finding out when Xu Yide would be home she knew it would be safe to see Feng Yongxiang while,for his part,Xu Yide would have an opportunity of seeing Jiang Juxia; a good example of proper respect and concern between husband and wife,to the advantage of both.敬，相待如宾。(《左传·僖三十三年》) He showed to her all respect,and behaved to her as he would have done to a guest.
❍ 你两个那里象天天在一块儿的？倒象是客，有这么些套话！ 可是人说的“～”了。(《红楼梦》1119)“You two are behaving like guests,not like inseparables，”she teased，“All these civilities! Well,as the saying goes，‘You show each other respect as to a guest’.” 相敬如宾xiānɡ jìnɡ rú bīn宾：宾客。形容夫妻互相尊重，就像对待宾客一样非常有礼貌。treat each other with respect, behave to one’s spout as one would have done to a guest |