犯而不校fàn ér bù jiàobe offended but not take it to heart; be wronged but not seek revenge
❍ 有若无，实若虚，～，昔者吾友，尝从事于斯矣。(《论语·泰伯》)…having,as though he had not; full,and yet counting himself as empty;offened against,and yet entering into no altercation; formerly I had a friend who pursued this style of conduct.
❍ 只有明明暗暗，吸血吃肉的凶手或其帮闲们，这才赠人以 “犯而勿校”或 “勿念旧恶”的格言，……(鲁迅《且介亭杂文末编·女吊》132)Only those assassins and their stooges who secretly suck men’s blood and devour their flesh will give such advice as “Do not take revenge，” or “Forgive past injuries./“～”是恕道，“以眼还眼以牙还牙”是直道。(鲁迅《坟·论“费厄泼赖”应该缓行》226) Passive resistance is merciful.“An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth”is just. 犯而不校fàn ér bù jiào犯：触犯；校：计较。别人触犯了自己，也不去计较。be not attentive to offenses committed against oneself, be wronged but not to seek revenge |