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治一经损一经zhì yì jīng sǔn yì jīngplease some and offend others
❍ 总而言之，为人是难做的； 若太老实了，没有个机变，公婆又嫌太老实了，家里人也不怕； 若有些机变，未免又‘～’。(《红楼梦》928) Well,it’s hard to please everybody. If you’re too honest and don’t know any tricks,your father and mother-in-law will think you a simpleton and the household won’t respect you. If you’re full of tricks,you’ll please some and offend others. |